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7/5/2026 0 Comments

Don't be a leaky bucket!

​ Sin causes a Christian’s cup of joy to spring a leak.
I’m thankful for God’s forgiveness. The joy of living life with contentment is a precious gift. But there are times when it feels like I hit a bog, and it can be hard to put one foot in front of the other. I guess that’s when I need to take a serious look at whether this is just Satan trying to defeat me, or if there is something in my life that I need to deal with. I have camped many times and water is a necessity. Carrying it to the site in a bucket is great as long as the bucket doesn’t leak. So this quote is quite symbolic. The bucket is still used, but it certainly loses value if you can’t depend on it to not lose half the water before arriving at the picnic table. So we, as Christians, need to be a fully leak-proof bucket for Christ to use us at our utmost.
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6/28/2026 0 Comments

Show of Service

​Service: Believe there is nothing too small to do well.
I’m sure we’d all agree that no job is too small, but the reality is it’s hard to follow through on that in real life. It’s easy to want to be “top dog” in some way - I think having the “important” jobs gives us the belief that we are important to society; we contribute in a way that makes us as a human feel valued. I know I’d much rather be a teacher than the garbage man - yet the truth is - if we didn’t have our garbage collected every week, what would happen? That’s a very valuable job. As a teacher I know I tell my students that if they don’t do the small things right, then how will they be trusted with big things. It’s a reminder to me that I need to practice what I preach. When I volunteer somewhere, I do enjoy doing whatever is required of me and I can go home content that I’ve been of service whether I’ve been out front helping the patrons or in the back washing the dishes. I do it to the best of my ability and that’s what matters. (PS: Photo - putting shoes on rack to be neat and out of the way.)
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6/21/2026 0 Comments

(A week late!)

​Salvation is free, but stewardship is costly.
This is such an important quote - I can’t imagine what it would be like to have to try to buy or earn my salvation! Jesus’ death certainly paid a price that no one would have been able to do on their own. I thank God for such an ultimate gift - but the next phase is also important. Our salvation is completely free - but once it has been received, then we can’t just sit holding that gift tightly and refusing to move on. We need to share it with others - and as we grow and mature, sometimes the stewardship of that gift comes with a cost to us. Whether financially, emotionally, or physically, Satan is not happy to have Christians succeeding and spreading the gospel; he will do whatever he can to hinder us. It’s like a farmer’s field; the crop can look so beautiful, then weather can come along and almost destroy it. Don’t let Satan send a tornado through your spiritual field!
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6/21/2026 0 Comments

Satan's ploys

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​Satan: One of the devil’s snares is to occupy us with the past and future so as to take away our peace for the present.
God has granted us freedom and forgiveness; however, we still have the consequences to live with from the choices we made throughout our lives, whether good or not so good. Satan doesn’t want us to live a victorious life; he’s very sneaky about bringing up past regrets and flaunting them at us in ways that can destroy the peace of mind God wants us to have. He can also throw worries about our future and uncertainty as to what might happen to keep us again from enjoying the peace we should have as we live in the moment. I know I’m good at worrying and need to constantly lay my concerns at the Saviour’s feet and enjoy what is in front of me now. I think that is why I love nature so much. The flowers are not there forever, but they flourish and nourish the soul for the moment - doing what they were created to do. I need to take a lesson from them and flourish in the moments God has given to me. Life is a journey, and change will always come. But enjoy the time we have and don’t let Satan take away your peace and contentment of today. 

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6/7/2026 0 Comments

Who doesn't like a reward?!

​Rewards: In the field of destiny, we reap as we have sown.
I have seen this happen more than once - and often tell my students being kind is its own reward. Not sure they always agree, but even in my own life many times I’ve had someone go out of their way to help me with something. When I don’t know how to thank them, they say “pay it forward.” My mom had the saying, “What goes around, comes around.” I do know that when I take the time to do something extra, I can feel good about myself, whether it gets acknowledged or not. Our  earthly trophies may not always be handed out to us - but we know that God sees our heart and intentions. We are building a trophy in the heavenly realm that is of much more value than any one we can get here on earth.
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5/31/2026 0 Comments

Repentance is hard, but good.

​Repentance is made up of 3 things - a change of mind, a change of  heart, and a change of life.
Although this is a true statement, sometimes that can be hard to do. Yet when we do repent, the joy and satisfaction that follows makes me wonder why it was so hard to take that first step - I guess pride gets in the way often. It reminds me of the apple tree in my yard that just had to come down. It started as an apple tree, but then decided to grow “mushrooms” instead of apples. Sin is like that fungus that took over and destroyed the tree. Once I cut it down, my yard is so much cleaner and easier to take care of - I need to look at that tree stump to remind me - have I allowed Christ to clean out my issues recently?! 
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5/24/2026 0 Comments

Is your religion real?

Religion is meant to be bread for daily use, not cake for special occasions.
In my opinion this quote is pretty self-explanatory; in other words - our walk had better square with our talk. Otherwise we do more harm in the name of religion to those who are looking at us. It’s a bit like my tulips - they look beautiful when they come out and are our “special occasions” in the road of life. However, they don’t last long and die away. Our religion needs to be more like the dandelion - it pops up everywhere and is very hard to get rid of! Even through a cold harsh season (the winter of life) when the dandelion is buried under drifts of snow - it’s just waiting to pop up again when spring appears. It’s a good reminder to me to appreciate the tulips but keep my faith like the dandelion!
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5/17/2026 0 Comments

No regrets!

Regret: You will never regret destroying a letter written in anger.
If you’re not a writer, maybe this quote won’t mean as much to you, but I can certainly identify with the statement. My diaries are my venting source. I’m glad to have them now that I’m writing books; they are a valuable asset in remembering certain times and events. However I wouldn’t want anyone else to read them as that is where I put all my feelings for the day/week, etc. In some ways, though, it is good  to read them again. I think, “why was that such a big deal?” Looking at events in retrospect helps with perspective. Life has gone on and I have survived and what seemed so frustrating at the time, now -?! I can chuckle at the issue that had seemed so overwhelming. No one is the worse for the wear, and I was able to release the issue in a safe way. In my opinion, people need a notebook and pen more than social media! That is the trouble with the social media we see so much of these days. People vent, not on paper, but on a laptop and hit send before thinking it through. I’ve often wondered how many people who send rather unkind remarks later wish they hadn’t? Or how many make comments that, if they were face to face with the person, would never say it? It is a good reminder to me to stop and think before uttering remarks that can never be taken back! Or if I’ve been on the receiving end of of such - to not be like an elephant (which is said to be an animal that never forgets things!) Let go and let God deal with the hurts in your heart. That way you’ll have no regrets.
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5/10/2026 0 Comments

Do you ever wonder why?

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Providence: All of my life’s “why’s, when’s, where’s, wherefore’s” are in God’s hands. I need not question.
What type of personality are you? Do you like to philosophize and dig deep into theological questions? Or do you prefer to skim along the surface, enjoying an occasional debate and think about things, but for the most part content to let someone else worry about all the “deep stuff” (as I call it.) My brother and I polar opposites in that respect. When he gets too deep in theological pondering I shrug and say, “Never thought about it; that’s God’s problem, not mine.” I don’t think one way is better than the other - both have value. Learning and understanding some of the deeper values in life is important; on the other hand we will never understand fully the mysteries of God, and we need to accept that. The most important thing is having the confidence that God is in control. It can be easy to question God and ask “why, Lord?” in the horrible moments and crisises of life.However, He never promised us an easy life, just that He would be with us even through “the valley of the shadow of death.” That’s what we need to hold on to and take comfort in. Faith isn’t faith until it’s put to the test. Trusting in God's providence takes a lot of stress away.
​ (Photo: One of the things I pondered in Panama - how in a long, long hedge of jungle green, how did one such leaf appear? The only one!!! It totally perplexed me as the 1/4 mile jungle hedge was solid green plants except for this anomally sticking up boldly!)

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5/3/2026 0 Comments

How long can it wait?!

​Procrastination: God has promised forgiveness today, but He never promised a tomorrow, so don’t procrastinate.
Are you a procrastinator? I didn’t think I used to be, but nowadays I’m not so sure. Or maybe it’s just that life has gotten so full that I don’t have as much time to have everything prepared ahead of time. I don’t like waiting until the last minute to get things done. To me that causes stress. I prefer to have everything done and packed and ready, then I can relax and enjoy the pre-time. However, I know some people work better when they have a deadline and have to get it done under the wire, so to speak.  Sometimes one way is not better than the other; it’s simply a matter of people’s personality. However, when it comes to life and death spiritually, then one certainly doesn’t want to procrastinate. We never know when our last moment on earth will be. I sat by a young man’s side as he slowly died from a brain tumor. He knew the end was coming and was prepared for eternity. I also had my brother (who was only a year older than this young man at the time of death) die in an instant from a car crash. He had no time to prepare. The Bible says, “…now is the day of salvation…” This is certainly one thing you never want to put off until “later” as only God knows how many “laters” we have. I’m so grateful that I had parents who told us the plan of salvation and lived out their faith. I can stop by the cemetery and see their headstone, but I certainly know their eternity was secured a long time before those death dates. I pray that you  can say the same about yours.
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    February 26, 2021
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    For a time in life when we supposedly have nothing to do because of Covid restrictions, it's amazing that I have trouble finding time to write here!
    Life in the classroom is exceedingly busy as the students are pushing to make up the beginning days we couldn't be in school. So there are no extra moments there. I still work/volunteer at the local thrift shop regularly and deliver the newspapers. Then any spare time I have, I have been working on book #2. The Girl with Nine Lives has sold well; I still need to get some more sold, but do hope to see book #2 hit the printers sometime this year, if possible. To that extent I have a poll to take. Titles are hard for me. This book starts where the first one left off. Tales of my adventures in teaching in at least six places. So with that in the back of your mind, what would be your favorite title out of the following:
    1. The Teacher with Nine Lives
    2. Lessons Learned Along the Road
    3. What is Going on Here?
    4. Around the World in Many Schools 
    Send me your vote on the best title in your opinion!

    February 12, 2021
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    Where does the time go? It feels like I should be frozen in time. After an extra mild winter, we were nailed with minus 47 wind-chill and -33+ temperatures for a week now! Makes it hard to do anything except get to work, and come home and wrap in a cozy blanket. 
    The blog definitely took 2nd place.
    But I'm so thankful and humbled at the wonderful remarks and reviews I've been receiving from people. It makes the struggles I've gone through worthwhile when I hear how people have identified and laughed and cried over incidents. That was my prayer when I first started writing.
    For all those who have asked, yes, I'm working on book #2. It will be slightly different as it is more the adventures of a teacher and the various cultures I experience along the way. When it will come out? Totally up in the air!

    January 24, 2021
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    Well, I have managed to get my books! It is an exciting moment when you have a physical visual of fifteen boxes waiting to be loaded into your vehicle full of your books with your name on them! It is also a huge blessing to immediately need to divest yourself of half of them because they have sold to various people and two bookstores. Thanks, Lord! Another blessing is that I'm receiving comments from various buyers that they had trouble putting the book down until they had it finished! I pray the lessons I learned the hard way will be of help and comfort to others who read this.

    January 16, 2021
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    For those of you who have read my book "The Girl with Nine Lives", or are reading it, or are waiting to read it and have wondered what that crazy little kid looked like, I have put two photos here for you. The little girl in the red dress on the horse is 'Stacy', shortly after she was adopted. That is the horse they gave her to help work her leg muscles. The black and white photo is almost two years later. It was taken for the immigration application to get Stacy into Canada. You notice she is smiling here. The doctors hadn't started sticking her with all those horrid needles yet! 
    I do not like to have my photo taken, but this will give you a visual to keep in your mind as you read about Stacy's adventures, or misadventures. As an adult, I have to admit, looking at the four-year old's picture - I can see her attempting to walk on air.
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    January 12, 2021
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    What a week! As a teacher on a Hutterite colony for grade 5-12, life is non-stop from 9:00-3:30. This coming Friday is the end of quarter, so report cards will be due. So that always makes one extra busy.
    But I had 2 highlights in this week. 
    The first: I came home and stumbled over something on my step. When I picked it up and entered, I found out I was holding MY copy of my book! I felt like a mother receiving her first child. The awe and wonder of holding something I'd created and labored over for - yes, about nine months- well, that is quite the feeling.
    The second: Last night the doorbell rang. I answered and a man stood there with a floral arrangement. I was sure he'd come to the wrong house, but he had the right name. Imagine my amazement when I saw that friends from the States had arranged these lovely roses to be delivered to celebrate this milestone in my life. In today's Covid restrictions, such a thoughtful, kind gesture means SO much! I never get flowers, so I'm still just smiling over it.
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    January 5, 2021

    How many of you make New Year's Resolutions? How many of you don't because you know you won't keep them?
    As I look at 2021 and wonder what this year will bring, I've decided to try a couple resolutions. 

    A poet once said, "It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." I feel that can be applied to resolutions too. As I start this year as a new author, I'm scrambling to figure out what I'm doing! This has definitely pulled me out of my comfort zone. I've asked the Lord, "What have I done? Am I stepping off this cliff to float or fly?"

    So my New Year's Resolution is to have a website and put a blog on it. Will this last? It will be interesting to look back in December 2021 to see what has happened here! Tech stuff is NOT my thing. But as a teacher, I always tell my students, "Just try. You never know what might happen." So how can I do less than I preach? I will try this. No guarantees, but I've made a start!  Happy New Year to you all!
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