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8/16/2026 0 Comments

Truth - hard to find!

​Truth: Be bold in what you stand for, but careful in what you fall for.
This saying is so true in today’s world. With everything that AI does, and the way people can photoshop so much - it’s hard to know what to believe anymore. Things that look true aren’t necessarily so. It’s important to really ask God for wisdom to know when you need to take a stand, or when to realize what you see and hear may not be what is true and just. I have to admit I do get nostalgic for “the good ol’ days” sometimes. Life seemed much simpler when I was growing up. But at the same time, I remember my grandparents being nostalgic for THEIR good ol’ days too, so while life can’t always be a Norman Rockwell painting, there can be good to be found. We just might have to look for it a bit harder!
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8/9/2026 0 Comments

Trust - very valuable!

​The man that trusts God is the man that can be trusted.
I’m sure we all know of people that when they speak you may nod your head, but your mind goes, “Yeah, right.” Why are we skeptical? Probably because we’ve had experience in the past with being led astray by this person or told only a half-truth. When it happens often enough, you base your skepticism on the reality you’ve experienced. How much better is it to be known as a person of integrity? I know we all make mistakes, but I want to be the type of person that people can trust. It starts with the little things - if I say I will be somewhere at a certain time - I want to do that. If I volunteer to help somewhere - don’t cancel out at the last minute. Those little things are what builds a reputation that people will trust. Anything can happen to cause a change, but when we trust God to help us be honest and consistent in our daily walk of life, people notice it. The little sapling grows into a strong tree through the daily buffeting of sun, wind, rain. We need to build our character the same way. Hang on to God the way the tree’s roots dig into the ground and we’ll be surprised where it can take us.
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8/2/2026 0 Comments

Trials

​Trials: A smooth sea never made a skillful mariner.
This is not quite as fun a quote to take to heart. But it is a true one. If everything goes our way, we certainly don’t develop the character qualities that make us a better person. So as much as it hurts and we wouldn’t willingly walk into hard situations, knowing that is what strengthens us and makes us better people is what can help me to accept those dark times. I’ve done a few hikes in my time, and you sweat and groan and get scratched up on the way up - but ooh the view at the top. It makes it all worthwhile.
When you take this quote literally, well I’d much prefer to go out in a boat with a man that owns the boat and runs it than rent something to try on my own. I simply don’t have the experience to know how to deal with something going wrong. He has survived many rocky spots over time that makes you know you can trust him. God is our skillful mariner in the seas of life. Trusting in Him will see you through many things you don’t think you can do.
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7/26/2026 0 Comments

How thankful are you?

​Thanksgiving: He enjoys much who is thankful for little.
At first read this may not make a lot of sense, but when I re-read it, I understood that it’s not being thankful for little, but when we are thankful for all the little things that happen on a day-to-day level we have much. I’ve been around a few pessimistic people and they are thankful for very little, which makes it a drain to listen to them long term. If we take the time to look and consider, our lives are full of so much. It’s not until it hurts to walk that you realize how much walking freely is a blessing; when you start coughing and can’t stop, then you understand freely breathing is such a gift, and so on. I am trying to work on finding something that brings me joy every day. I challenge you to do that for a week. You’ll find that you start enjoying more and more until hopefully it becomes a habit! Remember God didn’t send the rainbow until after the storm! But He'll always be your lighthouse during the storm!
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7/19/2026 0 Comments

Training - full time job.

​ Training: The best thing parents can spend on children is time, not money.
I don’t have a problem relating to this quote. I grew up in a family that I don’t think had a lot of money; I just never knew that. We had both fun and work, but we did it together on our small farm; Dad could make all kinds of weird/fun things that we used to play with, and I never doubted my parents’ love for me. We lived a ways out of town, so went together as a family whenever we had a town trip; supper time was family time around the table, and Sundays were church time in the morning, then in the late afternoon a car ride out to explore some road we’d never driven down. Now as an adult and as a teacher, I realize how special my childhood was and know that it was due in large part to the togetherness we had as a family. (PS: Photo - barn where we did daily chores; moving a building for holding summer Bible school on to the farm - all hands on deck (I was the spotter in the doorway!)
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7/12/2026 1 Comment

A command of language - or of tongue!

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​ Speech: It often shows a fine command of language to say nothing.
Are you an extrovert or an introvert? Sometimes I envy the people who are not inclined to talk. I know I have had some such friends share that they wished they had my “gift of the gab” so to speak. But I have a horrible tendency to stick my foot in my mouth way too many times. Or at times I say something that later I wish I hadn’t said. This quote is one that I need to work on. I look at the quiet types and think how controlled they are and able to keep their thoughts to themselves. I suppose, as in everything else, learning to balance talking with listening and silence is important for people in general.

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7/5/2026 0 Comments

Don't be a leaky bucket!

​ Sin causes a Christian’s cup of joy to spring a leak.
I’m thankful for God’s forgiveness. The joy of living life with contentment is a precious gift. But there are times when it feels like I hit a bog, and it can be hard to put one foot in front of the other. I guess that’s when I need to take a serious look at whether this is just Satan trying to defeat me, or if there is something in my life that I need to deal with. I have camped many times and water is a necessity. Carrying it to the site in a bucket is great as long as the bucket doesn’t leak. So this quote is quite symbolic. The bucket is still used, but it certainly loses value if you can’t depend on it to not lose half the water before arriving at the picnic table. So we, as Christians, need to be a fully leak-proof bucket for Christ to use us at our utmost.
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6/28/2026 0 Comments

Show of Service

​Service: Believe there is nothing too small to do well.
I’m sure we’d all agree that no job is too small, but the reality is it’s hard to follow through on that in real life. It’s easy to want to be “top dog” in some way - I think having the “important” jobs gives us the belief that we are important to society; we contribute in a way that makes us as a human feel valued. I know I’d much rather be a teacher than the garbage man - yet the truth is - if we didn’t have our garbage collected every week, what would happen? That’s a very valuable job. As a teacher I know I tell my students that if they don’t do the small things right, then how will they be trusted with big things. It’s a reminder to me that I need to practice what I preach. When I volunteer somewhere, I do enjoy doing whatever is required of me and I can go home content that I’ve been of service whether I’ve been out front helping the patrons or in the back washing the dishes. I do it to the best of my ability and that’s what matters. (PS: Photo - putting shoes on rack to be neat and out of the way.)
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6/21/2026 0 Comments

(A week late!)

​Salvation is free, but stewardship is costly.
This is such an important quote - I can’t imagine what it would be like to have to try to buy or earn my salvation! Jesus’ death certainly paid a price that no one would have been able to do on their own. I thank God for such an ultimate gift - but the next phase is also important. Our salvation is completely free - but once it has been received, then we can’t just sit holding that gift tightly and refusing to move on. We need to share it with others - and as we grow and mature, sometimes the stewardship of that gift comes with a cost to us. Whether financially, emotionally, or physically, Satan is not happy to have Christians succeeding and spreading the gospel; he will do whatever he can to hinder us. It’s like a farmer’s field; the crop can look so beautiful, then weather can come along and almost destroy it. Don’t let Satan send a tornado through your spiritual field!
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6/21/2026 0 Comments

Satan's ploys

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​Satan: One of the devil’s snares is to occupy us with the past and future so as to take away our peace for the present.
God has granted us freedom and forgiveness; however, we still have the consequences to live with from the choices we made throughout our lives, whether good or not so good. Satan doesn’t want us to live a victorious life; he’s very sneaky about bringing up past regrets and flaunting them at us in ways that can destroy the peace of mind God wants us to have. He can also throw worries about our future and uncertainty as to what might happen to keep us again from enjoying the peace we should have as we live in the moment. I know I’m good at worrying and need to constantly lay my concerns at the Saviour’s feet and enjoy what is in front of me now. I think that is why I love nature so much. The flowers are not there forever, but they flourish and nourish the soul for the moment - doing what they were created to do. I need to take a lesson from them and flourish in the moments God has given to me. Life is a journey, and change will always come. But enjoy the time we have and don’t let Satan take away your peace and contentment of today. 

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    February 26, 2021
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    For a time in life when we supposedly have nothing to do because of Covid restrictions, it's amazing that I have trouble finding time to write here!
    Life in the classroom is exceedingly busy as the students are pushing to make up the beginning days we couldn't be in school. So there are no extra moments there. I still work/volunteer at the local thrift shop regularly and deliver the newspapers. Then any spare time I have, I have been working on book #2. The Girl with Nine Lives has sold well; I still need to get some more sold, but do hope to see book #2 hit the printers sometime this year, if possible. To that extent I have a poll to take. Titles are hard for me. This book starts where the first one left off. Tales of my adventures in teaching in at least six places. So with that in the back of your mind, what would be your favorite title out of the following:
    1. The Teacher with Nine Lives
    2. Lessons Learned Along the Road
    3. What is Going on Here?
    4. Around the World in Many Schools 
    Send me your vote on the best title in your opinion!

    February 12, 2021
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    Where does the time go? It feels like I should be frozen in time. After an extra mild winter, we were nailed with minus 47 wind-chill and -33+ temperatures for a week now! Makes it hard to do anything except get to work, and come home and wrap in a cozy blanket. 
    The blog definitely took 2nd place.
    But I'm so thankful and humbled at the wonderful remarks and reviews I've been receiving from people. It makes the struggles I've gone through worthwhile when I hear how people have identified and laughed and cried over incidents. That was my prayer when I first started writing.
    For all those who have asked, yes, I'm working on book #2. It will be slightly different as it is more the adventures of a teacher and the various cultures I experience along the way. When it will come out? Totally up in the air!

    January 24, 2021
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    Well, I have managed to get my books! It is an exciting moment when you have a physical visual of fifteen boxes waiting to be loaded into your vehicle full of your books with your name on them! It is also a huge blessing to immediately need to divest yourself of half of them because they have sold to various people and two bookstores. Thanks, Lord! Another blessing is that I'm receiving comments from various buyers that they had trouble putting the book down until they had it finished! I pray the lessons I learned the hard way will be of help and comfort to others who read this.

    January 16, 2021
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    For those of you who have read my book "The Girl with Nine Lives", or are reading it, or are waiting to read it and have wondered what that crazy little kid looked like, I have put two photos here for you. The little girl in the red dress on the horse is 'Stacy', shortly after she was adopted. That is the horse they gave her to help work her leg muscles. The black and white photo is almost two years later. It was taken for the immigration application to get Stacy into Canada. You notice she is smiling here. The doctors hadn't started sticking her with all those horrid needles yet! 
    I do not like to have my photo taken, but this will give you a visual to keep in your mind as you read about Stacy's adventures, or misadventures. As an adult, I have to admit, looking at the four-year old's picture - I can see her attempting to walk on air.
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    January 12, 2021
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    What a week! As a teacher on a Hutterite colony for grade 5-12, life is non-stop from 9:00-3:30. This coming Friday is the end of quarter, so report cards will be due. So that always makes one extra busy.
    But I had 2 highlights in this week. 
    The first: I came home and stumbled over something on my step. When I picked it up and entered, I found out I was holding MY copy of my book! I felt like a mother receiving her first child. The awe and wonder of holding something I'd created and labored over for - yes, about nine months- well, that is quite the feeling.
    The second: Last night the doorbell rang. I answered and a man stood there with a floral arrangement. I was sure he'd come to the wrong house, but he had the right name. Imagine my amazement when I saw that friends from the States had arranged these lovely roses to be delivered to celebrate this milestone in my life. In today's Covid restrictions, such a thoughtful, kind gesture means SO much! I never get flowers, so I'm still just smiling over it.
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    January 5, 2021

    How many of you make New Year's Resolutions? How many of you don't because you know you won't keep them?
    As I look at 2021 and wonder what this year will bring, I've decided to try a couple resolutions. 

    A poet once said, "It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." I feel that can be applied to resolutions too. As I start this year as a new author, I'm scrambling to figure out what I'm doing! This has definitely pulled me out of my comfort zone. I've asked the Lord, "What have I done? Am I stepping off this cliff to float or fly?"

    So my New Year's Resolution is to have a website and put a blog on it. Will this last? It will be interesting to look back in December 2021 to see what has happened here! Tech stuff is NOT my thing. But as a teacher, I always tell my students, "Just try. You never know what might happen." So how can I do less than I preach? I will try this. No guarantees, but I've made a start!  Happy New Year to you all!
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